07 May 2012

Skyrim: How to get married

Skyrim allows for a wide range of options and it is one of the reason the game is so popular. However there is one thing you can do in the game that most people avoid; Marriage.


In Skyrim, yo are able to marry certain characters within the game. There are some benefits from this, while not getting in the way of the game play. Some advantages are having your spouse taking care of your house, providing an income of money, and making food.
How to get married

So when I tried to get married, there wasn't a straight forward article on how to do this. Here is how you get married.

  1. Speak to Maramal about marriage

  2. Obtain and equip an Amulet of Mara (Either though looting, or buy it from the priest in Riften)

  3. Speak to another character who would like to marry. If the option is available, you will ask them if they are interested in you. They are and you are interested in them, you will be engaged.

  4. You will receive a Miscellaneous quest for "Speak to Maramal about arranging your wedding"

  5. Go to Temple of Mara in Riften and speak with Maramal (Priest)

  6. After speaking with the priest, the marriage will be arranged

  7. Return to the temple between dusk and dawn, and your wedding will commence.

  8. During the ceremony you will be asked for the "I Do's". Here you can either say yes or no.

  9. After saying I do. Job Done!

  10. Exit the dialogue with the priest and immediately talk to your spouse before they leave the temple to discuss living arrangements. Choose whether to live in your house, or your spouse's.

  11. 10) Once you have decided on a place to live, your spouse will return there after 24-hours.


To buy a Amulet of Mara is 200 Gold from Maramal, or you can find one out in the world in chests or places.
My Disappearing Wife

So in writing this article I stepped through the process by marrying Camilla Valerius (from Riverwood). Once the wedding was over, before I had a chance to leave the dialogue, my spouse had turned and left the temple. Nowhere to be found. I searched for her at the shop, the temple and even my home in Whiterun. Nothing.

After reading some article I found this little gem in a list of software bugs.

In most cases the NPC spouse disappears after exiting the Temple of Mara, unless you exit dialogue with Maramal and rush after them before they reach the door. If this happens, you may find your new spouse in the spot where you first met; you can then talk to the person to decide where you'll both live. In some cases, the spouse seems to disappear from the game completely. This is easily solved by using the console command player.moveto (NPC RefID), which will move you to the spouse position.

  • When the spouse disappears, the game still treats a spouse as "alive" even when they have disappeared forever.

  • It is also possible for NPCs who attend your wedding to vanish forever in the aftermath, however this is considerably more rare and seems to only affect Camilla Valerius.


Just my luck. Marry a bitch and then they leave me forever alone. For PC there are some commands to reset the marriage, see here.
Shit! I missed the Wedding! She gonna be pissed!

Damn right they're gonna be pissed. Better punker up!

With my attempt at marrying Camilla, I sat in the temple and decided to wait for a few hours. Apparently in this short time I had missed the wedding. The people that were in the temple for the wedding suddenly didn't like me and I had to leave.

I returned to riverwood to find her again. The Riverwood Traders (where she lives) was locked, even though it was the middle of the day. I immediately knew it was locked because of me. I waited until it was night, and then picked the lock. She was in the room. I spoke to her and she mentioned to me how she "couldn't believe I was speaking with her after what I had done."  I asked if she would give me another chance, and she did. Again I was given the quest to talk to the priest in Riften.

Apparently, you can do this repeatedly, until you either actually get married or you you say No and call the whole thing off.
References

http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Marriage

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